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December 24, 2025   |   Read Online Power Is Lost When You Explain Too Much Clarity doesn't need permission. There is a natural urge in all of us to be understood. To make sure others get it…our reasoning, our intent, our heart. But, the more you explain yourself, the more power you give away. Because power is not only what you say…it's what you withhold. When every decision, boundary, or opinion requires a detailed justification, you subtly communicate uncertainty. You imply that you need external approval before standing firm. And people feel that energy immediately. Those who trust themselves don't over-explain. They state their truth with clarity, and allow silence to hold the rest. Explanations are useful when they add value. They are destructive when they attempt to purchase validation. You don't owe everyone access to your reasoning. Your standards, your boundaries, and your choices can stand on their own. This is not arrogance. It's authority. Leaders, negotiators, and individuals of substance all share a common trait: they are deliberate with their words. They know that unnecessary elaboration dilutes meaning. They speak to convey, not to convince. When you speak with precision, people listen more carefully. When you speak less, every sentence lands with greater weight. Resist the need to be understood by everyone. The cost of over-explaining is that you begin performing for the very people you should be leading. Let your consistency and your results be your explanation. Let your actions reveal what your words no longer need to. When someone demands you justify a decision that is already grounded in integrity, remember: Clarity doesn't need permission. You can simply say: "I understand your perspective." …and stop there. No defense. No excess. No apology. Power is preserved in brevity. Authority is communicated through calmness. Say what you mean. Mean what you say… Then, let silence do the work. The moment you stop over-explaining, people start listening more carefully…because they can sense you're no longer negotiating for understanding. You've already decided. And that certainty speaks louder than any explanation ever could. Your coach, -James Michael Sama P.S.: If you're looking for a private advisor to help you develop these qualities, let's talk.   Update your email preferences or unsubscribe here © 2025 Your secret weapon. 228 Park Ave S, #29976, New York, New York 10003, United States Powered by beehiiv Terms of Service